Sunday, March 05, 2006

Ego

When it comes to relationships many people know and have talked about how to make it work .What I am pondering on a cloudy Sunday afternoon is how to to avoid a bad relationship .What a looser !! He He ..

Many impersonate to impress the newly found love of their life , this might kindle romance and events that follow aftermath , but when the patner discovers your true self things tend to fall apart.After every broken relationship we hear people saying "I did so much for her , I bought her this , I was there for her when she needed me ,without me she could not have become the person she is " ."I was used and abused" is the sad tale of many people who once thought "life is beautiful when your are in love".."Love ke liye Salah Kuch bhi karega ".

Keeping it real , and conveying your true feelings at the right time clears a lot of misunderstandings .Many a times we refuse to break the news out and save it for the the future , though the pill might be hard to chew it is better chewed sooner than later .

Dave Chappel has a funny skit in his episodes about how "Keeping it real can go wrong ". But my call is "Keeping it real is the best way to handle relationships ".Like Russell says "Be a man , do the right thing ".

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

u'r trying to avoid a bad relationship..u dont have to think it so deeply..just goahead and tell the person that u dont want to have a relationship with that person..its as simple as it is, rather than keeping it in your mind and giving the person wrong thoughts and unwanted ideas about u and your relationship with whom so ever u have one.

Smugam said...

@anonymous

Thats what I meant by keeping it real .

Gladtomeetin said...

Yes... Keep the relationship real.

Say whatever you feel is right! Its very important to have Open/Frank and truthful conversation when you are about to enter or avoid the relationship

:-))

Da Rodent said...

machi., that picture (man with a beer mug) is awesome :) Hmm., too bad., i've been on a detox drive (actually a bit broke) for nearly three weeks which i managed to break last sunday.. :=S

Next time you come to chennai., we got to get drunk :P

Jagan said...

ah ha ..enna matter ? yaru antha figure ? yetho peelings le ezhuthune mathiri irruku ?

do the right thing dude ...tell her ;-)

Smugam said...

@@ Jagan

Haha !! Summa macchi ..figure la onnum illa

Vivekanand M said...

Hey
thnx for dropping by ma blog..well i am not really experienced in calling on/off a relationship but i do accept tat keepin it real clears a lot of confusion..but then some feelings can be temporary don u think??