Wednesday, October 26, 2005

Sick Day


Weather in Roseville,California had changed dramatically , this week its been gloomy and cold evey day .Today i woke up and i was feeling tierd and weak so decided to take a day off from job and take rest.

Treated myself to tomato rice ,and boiled egg and decided to spend some time reading my new book MiddleSex by Jefferey Eugenides .

Cricket it is




My mom reads my blog and she was saying i was getting very serious in life .So i thought i will post some lighter side of me ..and it matters to me in coherence to the central theme of my blog.

Saturday was the Last Cricket game of the Season , i play in the Sacramento Cricket League .I am the opening batsman for my team RCC-2 .Here are a few pictures of the last game .Hope you guys like it.

Thursday, October 20, 2005

What does Charity mean to you



The world has been divided into two hemispheres one are the have and the other being
have not .The Indian Crowd settled in america definitely falls under the "have"category. We are a set of people who have crossed oceans leaving the loved ones behind seeking green pastures.There are many problems that that we face when we immigrates to a a alien land.People arrive here with lot of dreams and go through lot of travails to achieve them .

But when each one of you get up in the morning , feed yourself to a bowl of Kellogg and start the ignition of you Toyota corolla parked in a nice appartment or a private home pause , stop and think for a minute .Forget about your problems in life like the Gas prices being high , ever rising real estate market,and your never ending Credit Card dues , you are definitely better than those people in India whose every day meal depend on their daily wage , young children who work in mechanic shops , grocery stores these children who haven't seen the Funskool toys that your kids play with , these children who have never stepped inside a school nor did they have new clothes for diwali when you happily bought clothes for your entire family on a Halloween Sale in Macy's.

Many of us including me have talked hours about the corruption in India and how Indian Society cannot improve unless we educate the masses did we do anything about it NO!!!.Gandhi rightly said"Be the Change you want the world to be".

This was a prelude to a question that I ask my friends What Does Charity mean in your Life ?I had asked this question to my close circle of friends here in Sacramento , we call ourselves ASJOBASH (AShok Bala Jom and SHiv ) . This is what we had decided. Every time one travels to India we would collect money from friends and family in US and give it to him .He rather than donating it an organization would identify a cause in his town or his native Village and would spend one week end of his vacation visiting a place and helping the Kids ,family, old people get what they need the most with the money he has assimilated before his journey .Lot of people living in US are short of time , trust me it is very difficult even to
think of issues like this with such a busy schedule .

Charity starts at home ,the house maid that works in your parents house could be your stepping stone to charity .You can graciously offer to take the expense of her kids education expenses until the time you can afford , you can visit a Local school where a small amount of slum dwellers manage to send their kids and agree to sponsor one kid from high school to obtain a College Degree .

India is a country with a lot of problems and these problems needs
modern solution .Educating poor Children is the definitely a noble deed .Every Child who is educated illuminates the lives of their family , inspires his friends to strive for success like him .A small deed of charity towards a poor child's education could change many lives.

Visit www.vibha.org and see what is happening in your city in US and look into their current projects and see how you can make yourself useful to this world which has given you so much to be happy about, share your joy of learning with others and make a difference in lives of people back home in India .I am planning to Volunteer for the Sacramento Chapter of Vibha Are you going to?????

Whats Success to you ??



Whats Success to You ??

I stopped by barnes and noble this afternoon and I picked up a book Called Success .It is not some self claimed Guru giving tips to be successfull but quotes of great people about Success .Success is relative to evey person and hence theese are few ways I define Success let me know if any one of you agree to some of the following.

1.Your Life is a Success if even one life has breathed easier because you lived.

2.If you feel Secure with the certainity that this is the way life will always be.


I am going to add to the list as i read through the book in meantime
if any of you (My fictional blog readers) can post your definition of success .

SHIV420


I decided to get a Custom License plate and i wanted SHIV on it ...but i need three more letter to fill it up with .So i popped a question to my Bro who without thinking said 420 ( Char so Beez) .I like an obedient younger ordered thoose and here is how it looks on my car .

Saturday, October 15, 2005

Leader ..Leadership ..Captain ....CEO What are they all about ???


My mom wants me to do an MBA and become a CEO .My Mom is ambitious sometimes impractical but for sure she inspires me ..And makes me think .Ok lets say I want to be a CEO of a big corporation .What skills do I need ?

This question leads to bigger question so is there a set of skills one need to gain to become a leader or are leaders born with those abilities thing I always believed in is if you want to be a leader you need followers you need them to trust you .To make this happen you need to lead by example and prove that you are truly worth their devotion .Many successful leaders were those who being among peers demonstrated great skill and ability and his own peers escalated him to Leadership.Self proclaimed leadership is dangerous .When it comes to leadership no article is complete without mentioning the dictators .Hitler ,Saddam ,Mussolini all ruled by terror .Is that the right way ? No it is not .

According to me a good leader is one who commands respect by his action ,is in good faith of his followers and leads them to a path of prosperity and protects them in moments of adversity .So is leader a GOD ?? And who is GOD by the way?? .I believe every man who does good to fellow human beings is god .Love is God.Leadership is a blessing and it needs to exercised with utmost care.

For thoose who dont know who this Guy is he is NarayanaMurthy the Former CEO of INFOSYS .If in future i happened to be a leader i would want to be like him .

Wednesday, October 12, 2005

Are you born creative or you become one.


I have spent hours wasting TV and browsing the internet aimlessly .But When some one asks me "Hey ship what are your interests". I would proudly say "Listening to Tamil music and playing cricket".That's when the inner me says "Common dude Tamil Music is fun I agree whats up with cricket who does not play it , tell me something different".

Usually the person asking me the question follows it up with "Do you play any instruments ? Any games like tennis ? Basketball? (People in India consider cricket part of life like Breakfast , lunch ,Cricket and Dinner ).No No no.How about Photography ,painting ? .Thank god some releif ,with great pride i would say " I take a lot of fotos".

Many time I wondered was it the place that you grew up ,your parents motivation ,
your friends ,that inspire you to become creative or is it just you who is responsible for it .Shamelessly I have put the blame on my MOM saying that all she wanted me to do was to Study and I did that obediently but MOM did not encourage me do creative things.

Artists ,painters , writers need a congenial environment do pursue their creative
endeavourer's wait a minute they were artists first before they seized an environment .

SO for all those people out there who are blaming it on the city you grew up ,school you studied , your strict MOM .Its time to think about the new things in life you want to experience .You need first think ..think deeply ..Think differently and think a lot .These are the first few steps to make your thought creative .