"I am bored".There has never been a week that passed during these three years that I have been in the states ("Land of my dreams" the way I referred to it when I landed here )where I did not claim to be bored.
I have the urge to do something always , be it playing some sport , watching movie in a hall ,dining out or traveling .People around me easily guess, that I am really bored ,when I sit down in a place quietly and start reading a book . I have had friends who can sit in their house alone and entertain themselves pondering on something , may be watch some TV , drink beer or read some books.These group of people I just talked about come under the category of calm souls and those people who always want to do something , like me fall in the "restless soul " category .
While talking to a good friend of mine ,a calm soul , she said that people who are bored of themselves constantly seek so called activities of fun .Not able to stand a mockery on myself , I quickly snubbed back with an escape phrase "What ever looser !!"
Are we , the adventure seeking folks , looking to explore the unexplored , bored with ourselves ?
Sunday, December 24, 2006
Saturday, August 12, 2006
Not So personal
Hey All ,
The posts on my blog are mostly random thoughts and have no inspiration from my current state of life
Thanks
Shiv
The posts on my blog are mostly random thoughts and have no inspiration from my current state of life
Thanks
Shiv
Tuesday, August 08, 2006
Traits !!
Walk up to the counter to purchase a few usual things and when the clerk gives you the credit card receipt ,do not forget to say THANK YOU .Every day in the morning a fellow driver needs to give way , to merge into the crowded lane , always waive your hand to thank him .Donot forget to hold the door for some one who is following you , always smile when you pass somebody , know to you.This is called courtesy.
Never boast your achievement so that the other person might get intimidated . Trying to convince some one that the road to success is just a few steps ahead in the right direction . Motivating others to achieve their goals better. This is modesty.
Apologizing even if you know that its not your mistake just to reduce the tension , with a kin. Not passing rude remarks or comments which can induce laughter to a few but might hurt some one's sentiment .You are considerate and may be modest.
Do you have to be rude to sound confident. Is modesty a sign of weakness?
Never boast your achievement so that the other person might get intimidated . Trying to convince some one that the road to success is just a few steps ahead in the right direction . Motivating others to achieve their goals better. This is modesty.
Apologizing even if you know that its not your mistake just to reduce the tension , with a kin. Not passing rude remarks or comments which can induce laughter to a few but might hurt some one's sentiment .You are considerate and may be modest.
Do you have to be rude to sound confident. Is modesty a sign of weakness?
Sunday, July 16, 2006
Heterodoxy!!
Born into a family , culture ,society forces you to accept certain conventions involuntarily .Growing up,you imbibe values which your parents choose for you .A doubter would question how much freedom do I have ? What choices in my life are mine ? Following established traditions ,customs might be easy , but accepting a way of life which is truly not yours may not be a easy choice .
Questioning the established belief , can raise a few eyebrows , but non believers I feel are the need of the day .With the society being plagued by malicious practices , people seeking a rationale for every established rule can help trigger a modern day movement to eradicate the problems which have been shackles to our development .
Questioning the established belief , can raise a few eyebrows , but non believers I feel are the need of the day .With the society being plagued by malicious practices , people seeking a rationale for every established rule can help trigger a modern day movement to eradicate the problems which have been shackles to our development .
Thursday, May 25, 2006
Stepped out BRB
Hi All ,
I have had major changes in my life and all have been for the good .It will take a while for me to adapt to the new changes and get back to blogging .Till then stay put , I will be back shortly.
Cheers
Shiv
I have had major changes in my life and all have been for the good .It will take a while for me to adapt to the new changes and get back to blogging .Till then stay put , I will be back shortly.
Cheers
Shiv
Monday, May 08, 2006
Mind Your words
Just 5 posts away from my 50th I write one , which is loosely based on my blog URL .MIND YOUR WORDS a constant battle that I have fought, with very little success . I have had a history of LOOSE TALK , atleast that's what I consider .I have had many instances where immediately after saying something I wish I hadn't.
I have always believed that LOOSE TALK is associated with extreme emotions , by which I mean we talk a lot when we are angry or in a happy state of mind . WE here belongs to those people who find it difficult to control their emotions , people who speak their heart out . I have had friends , mentors and family members(read it as BRO) whom I have seldom noticed utter something which was more than required , I admire their self composure , but how do they pull it off so well ?? My best pals Ashok and Bala exhibit the same composure , I envy those people because they have to deal with lot less troubles. Words that we speak are the root cause of most trouble.Take note that these composed people are by no means introvert ,they are full of energy , fun loving and great people to be with .
Many a times I have observed that good deeds are overcast by bad words , people who are in the good books of their friends and family members are those who maintain control over the words they speak . As the battle of my mind over the words continue I leave here with a question in my mind "Will I be know for what I said or by what I did ??"
I have always believed that LOOSE TALK is associated with extreme emotions , by which I mean we talk a lot when we are angry or in a happy state of mind . WE here belongs to those people who find it difficult to control their emotions , people who speak their heart out . I have had friends , mentors and family members(read it as BRO) whom I have seldom noticed utter something which was more than required , I admire their self composure , but how do they pull it off so well ?? My best pals Ashok and Bala exhibit the same composure , I envy those people because they have to deal with lot less troubles. Words that we speak are the root cause of most trouble.Take note that these composed people are by no means introvert ,they are full of energy , fun loving and great people to be with .
Many a times I have observed that good deeds are overcast by bad words , people who are in the good books of their friends and family members are those who maintain control over the words they speak . As the battle of my mind over the words continue I leave here with a question in my mind "Will I be know for what I said or by what I did ??"
Monday, May 01, 2006
Cell Phone Mani
Cell phone has been an integral part of my social life .My relationship with my Cell went sour when I touched her with with wet hands . For the past few days , volume functionality of my cell phone was repaired, by which I mean the display and other tasks work fine, but I cannot hear anything from the phone nor can I talk into it .
This morning I rushed to the Verizon wireless stores hoping to find a remedy for the illness , my cell phone had contracted .The store keeper checked a few things and said , that the cell phone has liquid damage and that I need to buy a new one for $150 .
This is the famous "Car Kit" Error of LG phones where in the phone assumes that a hands free ear phone has been plugged in and all external volumes are muted .I read user groups for the past two days , stripped the cell phone apart , cleaned the PCB , used a high power duster to remove all dusts , Used a microscope in my lab to see if any lines are shorted , broke into the firmware setting and cleared all firmware errors , channeled all my embedded knowledge , but sadly Nothing worked .
A disappointed me , sitting on my bed at 11 pm not able to talk to my friends unable to pick up calls.Is there any hope or Is this the end of my relationship with my cell phone . The final tip was to fold a aluminum foil and insert it into the slot for the battery charger. I had little faith in this trick , but I wanted to try this as it was my last resort . I ran down to my kitchen picked a strip of aluminum foil made a small piece , big enough to fit the battery charger slot and scrubbed it .To my Great Surprise the volume was enabled again and my Cell phone came alive from 3 days of coma .Tonight I am a happy man , my Life support System is back up .
Moral of the story is , if you in a bad situation in life and feel there is no solution for your problem don't loose heart , type the key words of your problem in GOOGLE and you are sure to find a solution .
This morning I rushed to the Verizon wireless stores hoping to find a remedy for the illness , my cell phone had contracted .The store keeper checked a few things and said , that the cell phone has liquid damage and that I need to buy a new one for $150 .
This is the famous "Car Kit" Error of LG phones where in the phone assumes that a hands free ear phone has been plugged in and all external volumes are muted .I read user groups for the past two days , stripped the cell phone apart , cleaned the PCB , used a high power duster to remove all dusts , Used a microscope in my lab to see if any lines are shorted , broke into the firmware setting and cleared all firmware errors , channeled all my embedded knowledge , but sadly Nothing worked .
A disappointed me , sitting on my bed at 11 pm not able to talk to my friends unable to pick up calls.Is there any hope or Is this the end of my relationship with my cell phone . The final tip was to fold a aluminum foil and insert it into the slot for the battery charger. I had little faith in this trick , but I wanted to try this as it was my last resort . I ran down to my kitchen picked a strip of aluminum foil made a small piece , big enough to fit the battery charger slot and scrubbed it .To my Great Surprise the volume was enabled again and my Cell phone came alive from 3 days of coma .Tonight I am a happy man , my Life support System is back up .
Moral of the story is , if you in a bad situation in life and feel there is no solution for your problem don't loose heart , type the key words of your problem in GOOGLE and you are sure to find a solution .
Tuesday, April 25, 2006
A Phase in the Life of an Indian ...Guy - Part 1
There is a phase in life of many ( Not so Hep ) Indian guy's life where
1. Bryan Adams songs makes him romantic .
One would Lip Sync his song and when he screams "In Heaven " the romantic-o-meter's mercury will be at its peak.
2. Chicks flicks are very funny
About Chick Flicks my buddy kartik once said "Only way I could watch a Chick flick is to drop my b&%*ls in a ziplock leave it out side the movie hall and watch the movie peacefully ".
3. You would say nice things to your Guy friends Like
"Man I missed you when you were at home"
"Hey I have been waiting for you so long ?? Where have you been "
4. In a family function's you would find yourself discussing family politics with your aunts and girl cousins.
5. A phase when you would wear a "Capri" aka 3/4th pant and consider yourself kool
6. Where you would go to Gym few days and buy one of those tight sleeve less tshirts to display your muscle.
7. Where the center page of regional magazines was your source of inspiration .
8. Where he would buy Greeting Cards and give it to his Guy Friends on birthdays.
There are many interesting things that an Indian Guy does during his early teen .If you have read the above bullets and if you think you cannot relate to it , be happy for yourself that you were one of those confused wanna be dudes.For those who can relate , you have nothing to be proud of either.
1. Bryan Adams songs makes him romantic .
One would Lip Sync his song and when he screams "In Heaven " the romantic-o-meter's mercury will be at its peak.
2. Chicks flicks are very funny
About Chick Flicks my buddy kartik once said "Only way I could watch a Chick flick is to drop my b&%*ls in a ziplock leave it out side the movie hall and watch the movie peacefully ".
3. You would say nice things to your Guy friends Like
"Man I missed you when you were at home"
"Hey I have been waiting for you so long ?? Where have you been "
4. In a family function's you would find yourself discussing family politics with your aunts and girl cousins.
5. A phase when you would wear a "Capri" aka 3/4th pant and consider yourself kool
6. Where you would go to Gym few days and buy one of those tight sleeve less tshirts to display your muscle.
7. Where the center page of regional magazines was your source of inspiration .
8. Where he would buy Greeting Cards and give it to his Guy Friends on birthdays.
There are many interesting things that an Indian Guy does during his early teen .If you have read the above bullets and if you think you cannot relate to it , be happy for yourself that you were one of those confused wanna be dudes.For those who can relate , you have nothing to be proud of either.
Tuesday, April 18, 2006
Are you financially Smart ??
I landed my first job last year . I led a cost conscious life in Grad School with a $600 income to pay for rent ,utilities and groceries . A full time job encouraged me to spend more .Few months into my job I was unable to track my expenditure and had huge credit card debts.
When my finance went messy, I had to come up with a strategy to combat my impulsive shopping nature .First of the few things I needed to do was
Track my expenses
Budget
Reduce expenditure one category at a time.
I cancelled all additional credit cards and stuck to one major card for all my expenses bought Microsoft Money and linked my credit card and checking account to it and tracked my monthly expenses . I budgeted all categories of my expenditure and decided to monitor my expenses Vs Budget every month.
This leads us to the first step towards investment.
Rule 1 :Save as much as you spend ( If you earn $3000 a month say $1000 goes towards your Rent + Car loan + Insurance , the remaining 2000$ needs to be split for expenditure and savings $1000 a piece).
2. Aggressively transferring money to a savings account (ING Direct 3.4% APR ) helps you save money.
The next few basic steps for investing are
3. Contribute the amount that your company matches into 401K every year .
4.If your company offers ESPP (Employee Stock Purchase plan ) use the full limit of this plan.
5.Every Investment plan should have a long term goal and a short term goal .Typical Short term goals are Investing money in the order of 5k -10k in mutual funds . Long term goal is to buy a house in 2-3 years with around 15% down payment.
Stocks , Mutual funds are good investments but one needs to collect a lot of data on those before attempting to buy .Investing Bible is a good book to get a heads start.Create a portfolio online and monitor it constantly , try to understand the factors that affect a stock price.
My friend Ashok has a website PROCUE which has lot of information in the finance section.He happens to be the source of all information that I provided in this post.
When my finance went messy, I had to come up with a strategy to combat my impulsive shopping nature .First of the few things I needed to do was
Track my expenses
Budget
Reduce expenditure one category at a time.
I cancelled all additional credit cards and stuck to one major card for all my expenses bought Microsoft Money and linked my credit card and checking account to it and tracked my monthly expenses . I budgeted all categories of my expenditure and decided to monitor my expenses Vs Budget every month.
This leads us to the first step towards investment.
Rule 1 :Save as much as you spend ( If you earn $3000 a month say $1000 goes towards your Rent + Car loan + Insurance , the remaining 2000$ needs to be split for expenditure and savings $1000 a piece).
2. Aggressively transferring money to a savings account (ING Direct 3.4% APR ) helps you save money.
The next few basic steps for investing are
3. Contribute the amount that your company matches into 401K every year .
4.If your company offers ESPP (Employee Stock Purchase plan ) use the full limit of this plan.
5.Every Investment plan should have a long term goal and a short term goal .Typical Short term goals are Investing money in the order of 5k -10k in mutual funds . Long term goal is to buy a house in 2-3 years with around 15% down payment.
Stocks , Mutual funds are good investments but one needs to collect a lot of data on those before attempting to buy .Investing Bible is a good book to get a heads start.Create a portfolio online and monitor it constantly , try to understand the factors that affect a stock price.
My friend Ashok has a website PROCUE which has lot of information in the finance section.He happens to be the source of all information that I provided in this post.
Saturday, April 15, 2006
Lok Paritran (Alas Serious Indeed)...
Lok Paritran party know to all as "Former IITians forming a political party".The party is contesting elections this May .It is looking for candidates to contest.
Any social cause needs finance and support and I hope the Indian diaspora that has been talking , complaining about the state of affairs back home will take steps to donate generously.I have emailed requesting the folks at the helm of affairs to create a Web Based method of sending money, facilitating the IT savy crowd to donate .
Till then spread the word about the party and encourage your folks to VOTE for them .
Jay Hindh
Lok Paritran
Any social cause needs finance and support and I hope the Indian diaspora that has been talking , complaining about the state of affairs back home will take steps to donate generously.I have emailed requesting the folks at the helm of affairs to create a Web Based method of sending money, facilitating the IT savy crowd to donate .
Till then spread the word about the party and encourage your folks to VOTE for them .
Jay Hindh
Lok Paritran
Sunday, April 02, 2006
Trust , influence ,positive energy , inspiration and belief
Ashok , a good friend of mine handed me a copy of "Wings of Fire "which is Dr APJ Abdul Kalam's autobiography .A man who is admired in the Global Community .One Chapter of the book has inspired me to write this post and I am sure remaining portions of this book will motivate me more .
Every person born into a family acquires its Socio Economical Values , he is taught a few good things by his parents. Teachers mould his thought , make him ready to accept challenges ,and to deal with uncertainties that life has in store .Friends , mentors , elders influence your thinking. After obtaining inspiration from many sources we draft a plan on our own and set to achieve it .Religious feeling aka spirituality which ever way we choose, tends to have an influence to on our thinking too .
I have always performed better when my parents encouraged me , my teachers motivated me and my friends trusted me .I take responsibilities for my actions and thank god for the great things he has done to me in my life , the good friends and mentors who he has sent to guide me .
I believe every one can be a positive influence in some ones life , creating positive energy in others is reciprocative .Let us be the source of inspiration for a few people whom we cross as we travel the journey of life.
Monday, March 27, 2006
Charity Post ( Re Released )
Gandhi rightly said"Be the Change you want the world to be".
The world has been divided into two hemispheres one are the have and the other being
have not .The Indian Crowd settled in America definitely falls under the "have"category. We are a set of people who have crossed oceans leaving the loved ones behind seeking green pastures .We face problems in an alien land.People arrive here with lot of dreams and go through lot of travails to achieve them .
But when each one of you get up in the morning , feed yourself to a bowl of Kellogg and start the ignition of your Toyota corolla parked in a nice apartment or a private home pause , stop and think for a minute .Forget about your problems in life like the Gas prices being high , ever rising real estate market,and your never ending Credit Card dues , you are definitely better than those people in India whose every day meal depend on their daily wage , young children who work in mechanic shops , grocery stores these children who haven't seen the Funskool toys that your kids play with , these children who have never stepped inside a school nor did they have new clothes for diwali when you happily bought clothes for your entire family on a Halloween Sale in Macy's.
Many of us including me have talked hours about the corruption in India , and how Indian Society cannot improve unless we educate the masses, did we do anything about it?? NO!!!.
Every time we travel to India we need do some charity , rather than donating money to an organization , one should identify a cause in his town or his native Village and should spend one week end of his vacation visiting a place and helping the Kids ,family, old people get what they need the most with the money he has assimilated before his journey .Lot of people living in US are short of time , trust me it is very difficult even to think of issues like this with such a busy schedule .
Charity starts at home ,the house maid that works in your parents house could be your stepping stone to charity .You can graciously offer to take the expense of her kids education expenses until the time you can afford , you can visit a Local school where a small amount of slum dwellers manage to send their kids and agree to sponsor one kid from high school to obtain a College Degree .
India is a country with a lot of problems and these problems needs
modern solution .Educating poor Children is the definitely a noble deed .Every Child who is educated illuminates the lives of their family , inspires his friends to strive for success like him .A small deed of charity towards a poor child's education could change many lives.
Wednesday, March 22, 2006
Madrasi ...!!
"Are Yaar Madrasi log will know English and Hindi but when a north Indian visits chennai they say Hindi Nahi Maloom "."Man no hard feelings but chennai sucks , the auto walahs are real horrible , my GF lives in a flat in Chennai and the house owner says no cooking Non Veg in the entire Complex ..Common dude you must be Kidding imposing rules on what one should do in their own house ".Every place I go with my GF every one gazes me , from an young guy to elderly people ,Whats their problem in life ??".Theese are the some of the stuff my north Indian friends had to say.
I hear a lot of statements like above .But every chennaite is proud of his city his culture and doesn't find a problem Living there .
Is Chennai a city that can sustain cosmopolitan crowd , people from different countries , for the matter non - Tamil speaking Indians .Thinking about it rationally I have my doubts .We are so rich in Culture and heritage ,but is it easy for tourists to travel and visit Tamil Nadu ? may be not.
Being a pivot of Industrial development in the sectors of Automobile and IT , Chennai , the corridor to Tamil Nadu needs a make over .We are proud of what we are, our tradition ,our culture but that should not stop us from being open to changes and development .Starting from the Airport , transport , Roads , Police we need to improve and make life conducive for visitors .We need to remodel the society in such a way that by only speaking English a person can lead a normal life in Tamil Nadu.
We need not change our roots , but we can accept constructive improvements .
Lets Hope that as we step into a new millenium we grow as a society which is corruption free and visitor friendly .
I hear a lot of statements like above .But every chennaite is proud of his city his culture and doesn't find a problem Living there .
Is Chennai a city that can sustain cosmopolitan crowd , people from different countries , for the matter non - Tamil speaking Indians .Thinking about it rationally I have my doubts .We are so rich in Culture and heritage ,but is it easy for tourists to travel and visit Tamil Nadu ? may be not.
Being a pivot of Industrial development in the sectors of Automobile and IT , Chennai , the corridor to Tamil Nadu needs a make over .We are proud of what we are, our tradition ,our culture but that should not stop us from being open to changes and development .Starting from the Airport , transport , Roads , Police we need to improve and make life conducive for visitors .We need to remodel the society in such a way that by only speaking English a person can lead a normal life in Tamil Nadu.
We need not change our roots , but we can accept constructive improvements .
Lets Hope that as we step into a new millenium we grow as a society which is corruption free and visitor friendly .
Saturday, March 11, 2006
How secular are you ??
Ashoka the great once said "For He who does reverance to his own sect while disparaging the sects of other wholy from attachement to his own sect in reality inflicts, by such conduct , the severest injury on his own sect "
While driving to a Chinese restaurant on a week day I casually asked my colleague "Hey Aleck Whats up for Summer ?".He replied "Oh..I forgot to tell you I would be traveling to India with my Missionary ".It was just these words that triggered the argumentative skills as rightly pointed by Amartya Sen in the book Argumentative Indian.
I don't like the Missionaries coming to India in the pretext of helping the poor but end up influencing them for religious conversion .I had to express this feeling to my good friend Aleck and had to provide suffice reasons for that .Here is what my argument was.
My best buddy for about seven years is Ashok a Christian , my other friend Rimzath is a Muslim .India is a secular country in which we go beyond religious tolerance and follow acceptance.I used to go ashok's house for Christmas and visit Rimzath on ramzaan to wish him "ID Mubarak".We celebrate each others faith .
India has poor people , people who are affected by physical and mental conditions .Helping people in need is "Karma".Associating religion with deeds of kindness is not a good representation of any faith .Providing destitute food , education and care will help India grow , but reasoning that, following a paticular faith has given him prosperity brings the paticular faith no good.I feel that the tribal and poor people do not have the wisdom to make a judgment.Educating them is a positive step in their life but influencing them to make a religious decision is morally incorrect.
We need to like a person for what he is , him being a better person is more important to me than the faith which is making him better .The effect is more important than the cause .India which has to focus on development in various fields doesnot need any hindrance in the form of communal violence.
Youngsters of my age grow up with people of different religion caste and belief .They accept their friends for what they are and try to forget their differences and work towards the betterment of the society .
Religious influence of foreign missionaries disturb the balance of India and affects its peaceful exsistence
While driving to a Chinese restaurant on a week day I casually asked my colleague "Hey Aleck Whats up for Summer ?".He replied "Oh..I forgot to tell you I would be traveling to India with my Missionary ".It was just these words that triggered the argumentative skills as rightly pointed by Amartya Sen in the book Argumentative Indian.
I don't like the Missionaries coming to India in the pretext of helping the poor but end up influencing them for religious conversion .I had to express this feeling to my good friend Aleck and had to provide suffice reasons for that .Here is what my argument was.
My best buddy for about seven years is Ashok a Christian , my other friend Rimzath is a Muslim .India is a secular country in which we go beyond religious tolerance and follow acceptance.I used to go ashok's house for Christmas and visit Rimzath on ramzaan to wish him "ID Mubarak".We celebrate each others faith .
India has poor people , people who are affected by physical and mental conditions .Helping people in need is "Karma".Associating religion with deeds of kindness is not a good representation of any faith .Providing destitute food , education and care will help India grow , but reasoning that, following a paticular faith has given him prosperity brings the paticular faith no good.I feel that the tribal and poor people do not have the wisdom to make a judgment.Educating them is a positive step in their life but influencing them to make a religious decision is morally incorrect.
We need to like a person for what he is , him being a better person is more important to me than the faith which is making him better .The effect is more important than the cause .India which has to focus on development in various fields doesnot need any hindrance in the form of communal violence.
Youngsters of my age grow up with people of different religion caste and belief .They accept their friends for what they are and try to forget their differences and work towards the betterment of the society .
Religious influence of foreign missionaries disturb the balance of India and affects its peaceful exsistence
Sunday, March 05, 2006
Ego
When it comes to relationships many people know and have talked about how to make it work .What I am pondering on a cloudy Sunday afternoon is how to to avoid a bad relationship .What a looser !! He He ..
Many impersonate to impress the newly found love of their life , this might kindle romance and events that follow aftermath , but when the patner discovers your true self things tend to fall apart.After every broken relationship we hear people saying "I did so much for her , I bought her this , I was there for her when she needed me ,without me she could not have become the person she is " ."I was used and abused" is the sad tale of many people who once thought "life is beautiful when your are in love".."Love ke liye Salah Kuch bhi karega ".
Keeping it real , and conveying your true feelings at the right time clears a lot of misunderstandings .Many a times we refuse to break the news out and save it for the the future , though the pill might be hard to chew it is better chewed sooner than later .
Dave Chappel has a funny skit in his episodes about how "Keeping it real can go wrong ". But my call is "Keeping it real is the best way to handle relationships ".Like Russell says "Be a man , do the right thing ".
Many impersonate to impress the newly found love of their life , this might kindle romance and events that follow aftermath , but when the patner discovers your true self things tend to fall apart.After every broken relationship we hear people saying "I did so much for her , I bought her this , I was there for her when she needed me ,without me she could not have become the person she is " ."I was used and abused" is the sad tale of many people who once thought "life is beautiful when your are in love".."Love ke liye Salah Kuch bhi karega ".
Keeping it real , and conveying your true feelings at the right time clears a lot of misunderstandings .Many a times we refuse to break the news out and save it for the the future , though the pill might be hard to chew it is better chewed sooner than later .
Dave Chappel has a funny skit in his episodes about how "Keeping it real can go wrong ". But my call is "Keeping it real is the best way to handle relationships ".Like Russell says "Be a man , do the right thing ".
Thursday, March 02, 2006
Sunday, February 26, 2006
Tagged
Oh...Sunday ..wake up late ..my IQ level still low i have to write some thing smart .
I have been tagged by Suchi ..here it goes
Ten Years Ago ,
I had my first big Crush .
Drinking and Smoking is evil .
Love marraige is a sin .
Found out ..children are not born using GOD's magic .
Debonair was the most informative book .
Five Years Ago
Only a dumb person studies in college.
Kool dudes never take lecture notes.
Bunking class is the best part of college life.
College Canteen was my home.
Playing Cricket was the smartest thing to do .
Was in love .
Was the DADA of my College.
Ragging must be made compulsory in colleges.
Hostel Life Rocks.
Last One year
First love never lasts .
First Car always crashes .
First Job Sucks .
BEER is your best friend .
Friends are the crux of life .
My family is the best .
Yesterday
K came to Sacramento with his parents.
Lot of Talk about his special some one with his family .
First time I had to say "I dont think It will work out between us".
Five Yummy Things
Moms Meen Kozhambu (Fish Curry).
Ven Pongal .
Chicken Biryani.
Appam Thenga Pal .
Kal Dosai Vada kari .
Five Songs I know by heart
Netru Illada Matram - Pudhiya Mugam
Minnale Ne Vandha Podile - May Madham
Anbe Sugama - Parthale Paravasam
PArkathe Parkathe - Gentleman
Dating - Boys
Places I escape to
My Computer
My bathroom
My bed
My frens house
Five things I'd do if I have money
Buy IPOD
Buy a new computer
Buy a NIKON XLR
Buy a BMW
Buy a House
TV Shows
Whose Line it is anway
Everybody Loves Raymond
Saved by the Bell
Family GUY
5 Things I can't Live without
Friends
CAR
Beer
Food
Computer
5 Cusines
Indian
Malaysian
Thai
Greek
Mexican
Five people I tag
Joe Steeve
Sukhayna
Nithya
Jagan
Katpadi Murali
I have been tagged by Suchi ..here it goes
Ten Years Ago ,
I had my first big Crush .
Drinking and Smoking is evil .
Love marraige is a sin .
Found out ..children are not born using GOD's magic .
Debonair was the most informative book .
Five Years Ago
Only a dumb person studies in college.
Kool dudes never take lecture notes.
Bunking class is the best part of college life.
College Canteen was my home.
Playing Cricket was the smartest thing to do .
Was in love .
Was the DADA of my College.
Ragging must be made compulsory in colleges.
Hostel Life Rocks.
Last One year
First love never lasts .
First Car always crashes .
First Job Sucks .
BEER is your best friend .
Friends are the crux of life .
My family is the best .
Yesterday
K came to Sacramento with his parents.
Lot of Talk about his special some one with his family .
First time I had to say "I dont think It will work out between us".
Five Yummy Things
Moms Meen Kozhambu (Fish Curry).
Ven Pongal .
Chicken Biryani.
Appam Thenga Pal .
Kal Dosai Vada kari .
Five Songs I know by heart
Netru Illada Matram - Pudhiya Mugam
Minnale Ne Vandha Podile - May Madham
Anbe Sugama - Parthale Paravasam
PArkathe Parkathe - Gentleman
Dating - Boys
Places I escape to
My Computer
My bathroom
My bed
My frens house
Five things I'd do if I have money
Buy IPOD
Buy a new computer
Buy a NIKON XLR
Buy a BMW
Buy a House
TV Shows
Whose Line it is anway
Everybody Loves Raymond
Saved by the Bell
Family GUY
5 Things I can't Live without
Friends
CAR
Beer
Food
Computer
5 Cusines
Indian
Malaysian
Thai
Greek
Mexican
Five people I tag
Joe Steeve
Sukhayna
Nithya
Jagan
Katpadi Murali
Friday, February 24, 2006
Just Friends yaa !!!
"No man can be friends with a woman whom he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her," said a wise man called Harry Burns when he met Sally Albright.
"Yes, that's right, they can't be friends. Unless both of them are involved with other people, then they can," Harry explained.
It's been 17 years since he said that and yet women don't seem to have really got the hang of what he means. They actually believe that the guy who calls every single day and goes out of his way to help her is "so sweet" and (wants to be) just friends.
Oh! Please! Men surely have better things to do than play guardian angel. Like it's their new full-time job or mission statement for life.
Now, let's consider for a minute the profile of these guys who do that.
a. He is single. Obviously, otherwise, he would be running around to get his own girl to like him.
b. He is not her type. Because, if he was, she would have seen through his desperate attempts to woo her.
c. He has friends who believe, or in some cases, KNOW that he likes her more than a friend.
d. He does not have another girl that he finds attractive as a friend. Because if he did, he would be doing that for her too.
e. He is the initiator... the guy who takes the effort to make conversation, at least most of the time.
Is that some sort of a co-incidence now that they somehow meet all those traits?
Fat chance. The truth is women like the attention they get, they don't want to say `No' to it or confront him because they don't want to lose the benefits. Besides, till the guy has said it, you can always just be "friends".
It is high time these do-gooder gentlemen woke up to see that if she hasn't seen his love in all that he has done for her, she's probably blind. Or plain dumb.
SHE SAYS
And men, of course, are assuming that women are really taken in by the `let's be friends' gag?
`Friendship,' my poor misguided young male puppets, is sometimes just a convenient way for women to make cow-eyes at you over canteen Cokes, or three course dinners. You might think you have the upper hand, but you're just being checked out to see if you are date worthy.
Because when a women is `just friends' with a guy, she gets a sneak peek at how he really thinks, behaves and relates to other people. (Pssst. A word of advice. Act snotty with the waiter and you're out in the cold.)
More important, being able to say, "we're just good friends, ya" lets you off the hook, when nosy friends start prodding you for details, and your mother begins to plan a June wedding in her head.
In fact, Indian ingenuity has come up with an even better way of concealing a relationship that's too young and unsteady to announce. The "He's like my brother," and `She's like my sister' story makes it so easy for all those totally unrelated siblings to watch sunsets hand-in-hand with nobody getting suspicious and tracing family trees. But, please remember, it doesn't work this way with everybody. Of course, men and women can be friends. Otherwise, imagine what a warped world this would be.
Men need their women friends. For one, men have terrible taste when it comes to picking out clothes or solitaires for their girlfriends, and can always do with some female guidance. Besides, female company keeps men civilised. Look at what happened in William Golding's "Lord Of the Flies", where a bunch of boys abandoned on an island began to eat each other!
And yes, women need their male friends too. They give us a man's perspective on life, making it easier to understand boyfriends. They are generally completely chilled out, which makes them easy to hang out with. And they're useful at times when you need someone to carry your shopping, help you move furniture into a new house, or get rid of an over zealous admirer.
Boyfriends are nice to have around, but guy friends are essential.
If you have reached this part of the post and you are wondering "Shiv has written a awsome post you are in for a Big Suprise !! This is an article i lifted from Hindu Metro Plus Chennai Edition ".
Hope you had a good time reading it .
"Yes, that's right, they can't be friends. Unless both of them are involved with other people, then they can," Harry explained.
It's been 17 years since he said that and yet women don't seem to have really got the hang of what he means. They actually believe that the guy who calls every single day and goes out of his way to help her is "so sweet" and (wants to be) just friends.
Oh! Please! Men surely have better things to do than play guardian angel. Like it's their new full-time job or mission statement for life.
Now, let's consider for a minute the profile of these guys who do that.
a. He is single. Obviously, otherwise, he would be running around to get his own girl to like him.
b. He is not her type. Because, if he was, she would have seen through his desperate attempts to woo her.
c. He has friends who believe, or in some cases, KNOW that he likes her more than a friend.
d. He does not have another girl that he finds attractive as a friend. Because if he did, he would be doing that for her too.
e. He is the initiator... the guy who takes the effort to make conversation, at least most of the time.
Is that some sort of a co-incidence now that they somehow meet all those traits?
Fat chance. The truth is women like the attention they get, they don't want to say `No' to it or confront him because they don't want to lose the benefits. Besides, till the guy has said it, you can always just be "friends".
It is high time these do-gooder gentlemen woke up to see that if she hasn't seen his love in all that he has done for her, she's probably blind. Or plain dumb.
SHE SAYS
And men, of course, are assuming that women are really taken in by the `let's be friends' gag?
`Friendship,' my poor misguided young male puppets, is sometimes just a convenient way for women to make cow-eyes at you over canteen Cokes, or three course dinners. You might think you have the upper hand, but you're just being checked out to see if you are date worthy.
Because when a women is `just friends' with a guy, she gets a sneak peek at how he really thinks, behaves and relates to other people. (Pssst. A word of advice. Act snotty with the waiter and you're out in the cold.)
More important, being able to say, "we're just good friends, ya" lets you off the hook, when nosy friends start prodding you for details, and your mother begins to plan a June wedding in her head.
In fact, Indian ingenuity has come up with an even better way of concealing a relationship that's too young and unsteady to announce. The "He's like my brother," and `She's like my sister' story makes it so easy for all those totally unrelated siblings to watch sunsets hand-in-hand with nobody getting suspicious and tracing family trees. But, please remember, it doesn't work this way with everybody. Of course, men and women can be friends. Otherwise, imagine what a warped world this would be.
Men need their women friends. For one, men have terrible taste when it comes to picking out clothes or solitaires for their girlfriends, and can always do with some female guidance. Besides, female company keeps men civilised. Look at what happened in William Golding's "Lord Of the Flies", where a bunch of boys abandoned on an island began to eat each other!
And yes, women need their male friends too. They give us a man's perspective on life, making it easier to understand boyfriends. They are generally completely chilled out, which makes them easy to hang out with. And they're useful at times when you need someone to carry your shopping, help you move furniture into a new house, or get rid of an over zealous admirer.
Boyfriends are nice to have around, but guy friends are essential.
If you have reached this part of the post and you are wondering "Shiv has written a awsome post you are in for a Big Suprise !! This is an article i lifted from Hindu Metro Plus Chennai Edition ".
Hope you had a good time reading it .
Monday, February 20, 2006
Amma .
Being a vivid music fan I have decided to post a few lines that caught my attention during the week .
Its a Hindi Line
"Yehan Sab Kuch hain maa phir bhi
bin tere lage mujhe akela "
A bit of translation
"There is everything in abundance here MOM
but without you I feel alone "
Poetic version by my good frend R
"missing my mom, is the reason only
without her around, i feel lonely"
Will wait a few days to days to post the Movie and Song Title .Till then I will let people guess ?? Current Blockbuster !!
Its a Hindi Line
"Yehan Sab Kuch hain maa phir bhi
bin tere lage mujhe akela "
A bit of translation
"There is everything in abundance here MOM
but without you I feel alone "
Poetic version by my good frend R
"missing my mom, is the reason only
without her around, i feel lonely"
Will wait a few days to days to post the Movie and Song Title .Till then I will let people guess ?? Current Blockbuster !!
Saturday, February 18, 2006
Jo
Jothika is the prettiest girl on screen and my favourite .This post is dedicated to her .
Things I Like about her .
Everything
Things I hate about her .
Nothing
Jo Fan Macchi !!
Thursday, February 16, 2006
Son
My Dad sends me great cards for my birthday every year .
The words in the card makes me feel that i have fullfiled
my parents dream to an extend .Here are the words for this year
Seeing you grow up into a nice person
makes me realize what Life achievements are all about .
The pride that we feel in our hearts when addressed as
your parents is obsolutely beyond explanation .
The words in the card makes me feel that i have fullfiled
my parents dream to an extend .Here are the words for this year
Seeing you grow up into a nice person
makes me realize what Life achievements are all about .
The pride that we feel in our hearts when addressed as
your parents is obsolutely beyond explanation .
Saturday, February 11, 2006
Chennai Rocks macchi !!
Its been my longest stay away from chennai .Two years and 6 months to be more exact .The three weeks I was in chennai was by far my best vacation ever .Having lived there for 17 years , how does this three weeks rank up to number 1 ? .Let me stop the prelude here and mention the factors that made it so .
1. The BIG KISS I got from my grandma when I reached home .
2. Three night shows with my DAD Aaru , Kanda Naal mudhal and Sanda kozhi .
3. Quality time spent with mom and dad .
4. Balajee Bhavann Tiffin Menu .
5. Cute Chennai Girls .
But the whole incident that sparked me to write this was the nights that I spent with Kuppa Queen 's Kuppa Gumbal . Meeting Yuvan Shankar Raja in Mocha , tons of KF that I guzzled , Bikes and Barrel , Dublin koothu were my best moments .Thanks to the entire Kuppa Gumbal and special mention to Siddharth .Hope to have a big Kuppa Bash in US may be Vegas !!
Looks like an Oscar winning speech .
1. The BIG KISS I got from my grandma when I reached home .
2. Three night shows with my DAD Aaru , Kanda Naal mudhal and Sanda kozhi .
3. Quality time spent with mom and dad .
4. Balajee Bhavann Tiffin Menu .
5. Cute Chennai Girls .
But the whole incident that sparked me to write this was the nights that I spent with Kuppa Queen 's Kuppa Gumbal . Meeting Yuvan Shankar Raja in Mocha , tons of KF that I guzzled , Bikes and Barrel , Dublin koothu were my best moments .Thanks to the entire Kuppa Gumbal and special mention to Siddharth .Hope to have a big Kuppa Bash in US may be Vegas !!
Looks like an Oscar winning speech .
Thursday, February 09, 2006
Coffee makes you smarter !!
For the past few months I have been frequenting the US Tea kadai (Shop*) Star Bucks .
After many attempts Michele got my name right , so every time I step into SB she greets me by saying "Wassup Sheev ".
For bulk of students and office goers ,coffee is the burning fuel .Early morning to get the day started we need a cup of coffee .A bit of caffeine wakes you up from the afternoon drowsiness .So the question arises does a cup of Coffee make you smarter ?? .
Today I came across an article in TIME which claimed that "Coffee stimulates your brain to respond better " . Intelligence of a person cannot be enhanced , but the ability to focus can be increased with a cup of coffee and this has been medically proven .Next time you are feeling sleepy and not able to concentrate ,get yourself a cup of coffee things ought to get better .
STATUARY WARNING : COFFEE CONTAINS CAFFEINE WHICH IS INJURIOUS TO HEALTH
Tuesday, February 07, 2006
Argumentative Indian
A couple of friends of mine have been reading the latest book by Amartya Sen "Argumentative Indian " .This book is about how diverse India is and how vastly different ideas we posses .It brings out arguments on Indian democracy ,caste , creed and its constant battle for peace.This book might give you answers to many questions about Indian culture that may have been lingering in your mind .
Havent had my hands on this book yet , it will take a while for me to read it and review it .Meanwhile I would like every one to put this book on their reading queue .
Saturday, February 04, 2006
Here or There ....
United States has been the land of dreams for a lot of people . When one lands in US they carry with them hopes of their entire family .After lots of hardship a decent life is established and with very year going passing by life gets even better .
There are a few who like the American way of life adopt to it, and let go of their past which includes their culture ,tradition and values . There a few who fight a constant battle between the western influence and their eastern values .Life is good here , by saying that what I mean , a very good number of people live in nice houses , eat good food , have good clothes to wear .Having covered all basic necessity , people have enough time and money for vacations and many extravagant events .Oh boy life is definitely good here .
A few feel home is where the heart is,but others like to live in a place which is more conducive for life , better facilities ,infrastructure and better education for their kids .But reasons apart I would love to live where I am most happy .Is it going to be here or there is a big question that i have to answer sooner or later ?
Friday, January 06, 2006
My first device
The first project that I worked in my professional career has
entered the market .It is a PC/PDA dual purpose device .
Please check the URL and let me know what you feel .cPC
I played a major role in the software development of this project .
I feel thrilled that this product is listed as one of the three candidates
in Palm PC category at Consumer Electronics Show 2006.
Man Vasanai
The pits that I encountered on roads , cuts that made in my bike , road side food stalls , railway gate , visits to sathyam theatre ,spencer ,coffe day represent my teenage .
"Oh my God !! so much garbage , dirty roads , rude drivers , crowded busses , cheating auto drivers , corrupt cop "said the bloody american ."Being at home , drinking moms tea , eating south indian food , pretty tamil girls ,watching tamil movies "said the simple tamilian .
Cost of living has gone up , petrol is nearing 50's , 500 is the running currency , bikes cars for every one are the new elements of the chennai life .
A lot of movies to watch , a lot of school and college friends to meet , a lot of shopping to do ....
Have I redicovered myself or have I lost my past.I am happy to be back in Chennai ....
"Oh my God !! so much garbage , dirty roads , rude drivers , crowded busses , cheating auto drivers , corrupt cop "said the bloody american ."Being at home , drinking moms tea , eating south indian food , pretty tamil girls ,watching tamil movies "said the simple tamilian .
Cost of living has gone up , petrol is nearing 50's , 500 is the running currency , bikes cars for every one are the new elements of the chennai life .
A lot of movies to watch , a lot of school and college friends to meet , a lot of shopping to do ....
Have I redicovered myself or have I lost my past.I am happy to be back in Chennai ....
Thai Manne Vanakkam
I landed in bangkok on a late friday afternoon from singapore with my brother and my other cousin .As we were about to leave the airport I encountured a very familiar atmosphere where the taxi drivers were trying to lure tourist to ride with them , we shrugged everyone and went straight to the prepaid line .
The buildings , streets, of bangkok are very similar to any city in
India .There were a lot of things to see in thailand but we decided to stroll
on the local streets .Like any tourist spot many touts would approach you for many things , theses were the common lines "thaaaaaai massage sire ","Sir tuk tuk (Tuk tuk is auto of thailand)".
Thailand is famous for imitation of branded goods, Louis Vutton bags,Rolex watches , Sports Jersy are among the hot sellers.The thai currency is Bhat and it has the same value as an Indian Rupee.
On Day 2 we took a boat ride to the Kings Palace , walked to the Sleeping Bhuddha in the noon .In the night we visited the night market and dined in a fancy thai restaurant .
Day 3 was one of my best travel experience , we visited the floating market .It is canal which has shops in it and the tourist would travel on boats and shop around .I would let the pictures do the remaining talking.
There are many things , other than what i wrote ,that thailand has to offer and you have to be there to experience it .And like they day "What ever happens in Bangkok stays in Bangkok ;) ".Over all i had a great time here and all credits to my host and financer my bro .
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